I understand that.
But well
@RyanF got an amazon review of Red in Braid calling it 'utter pish'.
@The Red got called racist for portraying the Japanese Army as fighting to the death in an ah where the coup against hirohito succeeds.
People are going to critique you and the critique is often going to be baseless. That's just the nature of the world. Not all criticism is equally well thought out.
I think it gives too much power to that critique if you change your writing plans to try and avoid it. Try and be sensitive yes, get advice from people of that group before writing it, yes. But ultimately I think a writer has to write what they think is the best story and sod the critics.
There is a story that I want to write and have had half written for years that deals with very sensitive subjects and I keep rewriting it to try and get it right and be sensitive about it. But I still want to write it, when I think I'm good enough, and if people get upset about it, I'm happy to look them in the eye and say I gave it my best shot and it might not be perfect but I'd rather this story is written than not and I think that's better than just sticking to writing about people like me.